Hey Ladies!... Are you wondering...
“Why do men cheat?”
“Would he cheat on me?”
“Is he cheating on me?"
“Does he still want his ex girlfriend?"
“Does he think she’s sexier than me?"
Ok, here we go...
Would he cheat on me???
If you have looked around my website already, you have probably found that I talk a lot about Mike’s Fiore Secret Survey program. If you haven’t, I’ll tell you a little bit about it and why it is relevant here.
Secret Survey is in my opinion one of the best programs to find out and learn about what men REALLY think, want and need. Here, Mike Fiore did a survey among hundreds of regular men and women to give answers to very common questions such as... Why do men cheat?... Would he cheat on me???
All the questions in the intro of this article were highly requested by women in the survey.
This program is truly the outcome and the result of what men really are, how they think, and why they do the things they do. I loved the whole program as crude, straight and brutally honest as it is.
Men now make sense to me! And I'm actually relieved to finally be able to “get them”... But ladies, the chapter of cheating... Oh man! That one was a real challenge!
I'm very open minded, but I must confess that even though Mike did a great job explaining why do men cheat, how they really behave and why they act the way they do... There are simply some things that as a woman, I just don’t like to hear and cheating is one of them. I bet you feel the same way...
Ok, let’s see how this article finally comes out... Although to be honest, I would rather for you to listen to this information directly from Mike. I know that as a man he can do a better job at explaining this than me.
So, the big question is...
Would he CHEAT on me???
... And the big answer according to the survey of hundreds of men in a relationship was...
YES... He would, under the right circumstances...
Even if he loves me???
YES... He would, under the right circumstances.
Whaaat?... Well, YES was the common answer! And as much as I hate the answer, it seems to be the big reality out there.
In Mike’s own words:
“Why do men cheat is one of those topics that gets me in trouble and floods my email inbox with a frothy mixture of righteous anger and thankful praise.
But hey, you gotta do what you gotta do. =-)
In this lesson, we’re going to talk about cheating and infidelity.
We’re going to discuss WHY do men cheat on women (and why women cheat on men), what it means when a man cheats on a woman, what cheating actually IS, what goes through a man’s mind when he has the opportunity to cheat, and what you can do to make your relationship as cheat-proof as possible and keep the specter of cheating (and insecurity over a man cheating on you) from killing your relationship.
If you’re like most women it’s going to be a challenging lesson that will send a torrent of emotions through your whole body and challenge a lot of your ideas about infidelity, cheating, and even about yourself. So take a deep breath. Here we go...”
Mike Fiore, Secret Survey
This seems to be a topic not very easy to approach, but as much as I don’t like the results of the survey, when it comes to cheating, I think Mike did a great job explaining the whole topic to us.
Apparently in today’s world monogamy is a very hard thing to maintain...
Check some of the statistics:
And those are just married people.
Now, the most interesting part is that as much as that sounds terrible in today's world, in the past, monogamy was even out of the question!...
It seems like for our ancestors monogamy was not a big deal.
Apparently, human beings simply aren’t designed to be Sexually Monogamous, according to scientific search...
Wow! That was a big one for me...
Mike has more info about this research in Secret Survey. Now, that doesn’t mean that, as humans, we cannot be monogamous; we actually can, and we should if we decided to be in a monogamous relationship, but it kind of explains (at least biologically speaking) why do men cheat and which are some of the reasons why monogamy is too hard to reach.
Now, if we add to that the routine that a couple faces after being together for a while, the big temptations out there, the relationship problems and even the biggest one.... The lack of sex or diminished amount and frequency of great sex... Then we have a time bomb here!
Now personally, I do believe that:
The better we do in keeping our relationship alive, the less chance we have to fall (both man and woman) on cheating!
As much as men WOULD cheat on us under the right circumstances... That doesn’t mean that they actually WILL do it, or ARE doing it right now.
That only means that there is the possibility or the risk.
RISK that we can significantly lower by keeping our man happy and sexually satisfied (that goes both ways, though) and also by nurturing his love to the point that he would have the willingness to control himself and avoid temptations.
The number one cause of infidelity in couples is still not nature, biology or psychology...
... Is a pure lack of happiness, love and sexual satisfaction in our relationship...
... And that’s something that we can definitely avoid!
It's like taking preventive measures against something that is very common and available to happen. It is taking charge of our relationship and nurturing it to keep the passion and love alive.
For more insights about cheating and how to cheat proof your relationship, watch Mike's video explaining more about "Why Do Men Cheat".
Here, you'll get more info about his amazing program Secret Survey... So, take a deep breath and get ready to find out the truth about men and cheating:
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