What Women Think About Love


What women think about love may be very different from what men think about love. Discover how she thinks and what her expectations are.


Women think about love in a whole different way. We don't only connect love to sex but also, have certain expectations.

Most women see love as the foundation of the relationship, and there are 8 things that we consider vital components of love...


8 things women think must be part of love in a couple's relationship:


1: COMMUNICATION

Communication is basic in a relationship. It is the way two people have to understand each other.

A woman needs to express her feelings through communication. It is a vital part of our nature. We feel loved when our partner listens to us and open to us.

Also, communication is how she gets to know...

What you need, what you want, how you feel, how you think, what you expect, what bothers you, what worries you, what you feel is missing...

In the same way, it is how you get to know all of the above things from her.

It is the only way for both of you to know what’s going on in your minds and your hearts! We cannot expect our partner to guess!... That only brings misunderstanding in a relationship.


Lack of communication will sooner or later break the relationship!


The only way to build up a healthy and strong relationship is by both partners being on the same page... And, the only way to know if they are on the same page, is communicating everything with each other!


2: RESPECT

A woman truly loves a man when he respects her. By respecting her in every sense, you're showing her your love.

We need respect from our man. It is completely essential for us to love and respect him back. This goes both ways.

Respect is essential for both partners in a couple in every aspect of the relationship...

Respect as a person and as a partner... Respect of different point of views... Respect the freedom of expression... Respect of being treated equally... Respect of values, interest, goals, projects, jobs... Respect of our partner trust and love... Respect of commitment...

And, so much more... Actually, respect must be present everywhere in a relationship!

Lack of respect truly hurts a person...

And over time, it will definitely damage love.


3: APPRECIATION

As women, we need and value appreciation more than you think.

Showing her appreciation for what she does, will not only show how much you care and how grateful you are, but also, it will make her want to do more for you!

Appreciation is the way you have to let your woman know that you value what she does for you. It is how you say THANK YOU! And believing or not, she needs to hear that.

She needs to know that what she's doing is being valued...  Is being appreciated... It is worth it!

Many times in life, we take people for granted... And they give, and give.... and keep giving... Until one day, they start feeling that it’s not worth the effort because it’s not being recognized and appreciated by the other person...

...So, they ask themselves... Why bother anymore?... And, there’s when people start stepping back, and little by little become distant... Unfortunately, by the time we realize the damage.... It may be already too late.

Don’t let that happen to you!

* Tell her how much you appreciate how clean the home always is...

* Tell her how much you appreciate how she works hard all day, and she’s still go home and make dinner...

* Tell her how much you appreciate the time she puts on looking sexy for you... and how much you like it!...

*Tell your woman, how much you appreciate how she takes care of you... and the kids (if any).

And the list goes on and on.... From every little thing, to the big stuff... Show her your appreciation, always!... And, she will not only love you even more, but will also be happy to do even more for you!


4: SUPPORT

Support our partner, and feel supported by him, it is part of why we are in a relationship. At the end, if we wanted to be alone, and if we didn’t need or like to have someone by our side to support us... We would just be on our own!

We want to feel supported by our man. No matter how independent we are, we still like that feeling of safety.

It is very important to support your partner in everything... Even if she has different points of view about something. Support someone not always mean to agree with them, it means “I’m here for you no matter what!”

And when you don’t agree with her about something, and you still support her.... That shows you love even more!

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying... Go with every single crazy, or nonsense thing she wants to do, you still have the responsibility, as a partner, to tell the other person when you think they’re doing something wrong....

... What I mean, is to support her in the good times, in the bad times... With her projects, dreams, jobs, challenges...

Just be there for her always! Show her your love!


5: TRUST

Trust is vital for a relationship to work! If there’s no trust, there’s no relationship!... At least, not a healthy one!

When a woman can’t trust his partner, a relationship becomes a nightmare... It is like “sleeping with the enemy” she doesn't know when or how he is going to betray her!... Therefore, she may be always in a defensive mode.

Lack of trust is a serious problem in a relationship. It brings up insecurities, fears and resentment. 

Now, of course, trust is not only related to cheating... It is related to every aspect of the relationship. A woman needs to fell that she can...

* Trust that he really loves her...

* Trust that he will be there for her... 

* Trust that he will be able to provide and support... 

* Trust that he is being honest with her...

* Trust on how he is handling well the finances...

* Trust on the way he is raising the kids (if any)...

* Trust that he is not lying...

* Trust that he is not sleeping with anybody else, and may not only hurt her, but also potentially bring some kind of STD...

And so much more... Trust is in everything!

A woman needs to be able to trust in her man, in order love him and have a healthy relationship. 


6LOYALTY

Loyalty... Fidelity... NOT CHEATING!... Is a huge part of keeping your relationship and her love for you alive!

Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to a woman. It will break her trust and damage her love, possibly, forever!

Not everybody is willing or able to save a relationship after cheating, and quite frankly, if they do, there will always be some kind of insecurity, distrust, doubt, and resentment.... And of course, the potential of experience cheating again!

Do your woman and yourself a favor... DON’T CHEAT!

Cheating is one of the worst ways you can hurt the person you “supposedly” love!... In other words, if you truly love her, you shouldn't be cheating on her!

Temptation and opportunities are always going to be there. So, when they come up, prove yourself how strong and real is your love and respect for her.

Remember, if there are problems in the relationship, cheating is not going to solve them!... It will only make things even worse!...

The solution to any problem in the relationship is communication! Face what’s wrong, and look for a solution.... Any form of escape will never going to solve anything!

Being loyal to her will make your love last longer and be stronger!


7: ROMANCE

Romance is the best way to keep her love alive!... If you keep romance alive... her love will stay alive!

Women LOVE romance... CRAVE romance... NEED romance! More than you can imagine!

Unfortunately, romance gets usually lost in a long term relationship. Somehow it is left forgotten among other daily “stuff” like.... Routine, jobs, chores, money issues, busy schedules, kids, arguments... You name it!

Women see romance as a way to nurture love! It is somehow like... how you go to the gym to keep the muscles strong, or how you drink water to stay hydrated, or how you feed a baby for him to survive ... Well, you romance your woman to keep her love alive!

Romance is to take some time out of the crazy, busy routine to spend some nice and relaxing quality time with the person you love. It could be doing anything!

Romance could be...

* Go out and have dinner...

* Take a vacation...

* Take a walk on the beach...

* Take a bath together... have some candles, soft music and champagne... 

* Make love out in the country, under the stars....

* Surprise your woman with a flower...

* Take a hike in a mountain... make love at the top...

* Pour chocolate all over her body... and lick it!...

* Send a romantic text message during the day...

* Cook for her...

* Tell her “I LOVE YOU”...

Romance is really simple, and it can do wonders for your relationship! It will fuel your love for years to come!


8: GREAT SEX!

And, of course... Great Sex! Oh Yeah!.... This one is huge!... And, I don’t only mean sex.... I mean Great Sex!!!

Women also value sex more than you think because for us sex has a direct connection to love.

In a relationship, sex is a special bond that keeps two people together. Without sex, a couple become just friends, roommates... or even enemies!

Sexual attraction is what brings two people closer, in the first place, and then, it is what will hold them together for a long time. We must keep feeling that sexual attraction over time if we want to stay together as a couple. It is part of nurturing the relationship and make it stronger!

Remember, sexual attraction makes us feel something exciting!... It is when you desire your partner so bad that you can't wait to be together. Desire and sexual attraction have nothing to do with plain and boring sex!

Besides that...

Just plain boring sex does really nothing to keep love alive....

You need Great Sex!

And...

LOVE IS WHAT MAKES SEX TO BE... GREAT SEX!


Keeping yourself sexually attracted to her, and keep her sexually attracted to you, means putting an effort in making sex be better every day!

In order for sex to be great sex, it requires...

* A lot of open communication with her about your sex life...

* Learning what she really needs and wants...

* Learning about sex to please her better...

* Adding variety to your sex life to avoid routine. Trying new things, new techniques... Experimenting!...

* And of course... LOVE HER!...

Great sex is a skill that can be learned and improved over time!... With lots of practice! ;)...  It is a very important part to take care in your relationship for you guys to stay together.

Great sex will also show her that you love her!... Give her lots of foreplay, lots of orgasms, and lots of LOVE!


Great sex will help to keep love alive!


There you have it! What women think about love - involves many things we need to have in a relationship to feel loved and to express our love. These are the main 8 aspects of love that women value the most.

Make sure you take care of every aspect I mentioned above, and your woman will love you for years to come!


Angie :)

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