What Men Want In Bed:
6 Reasons Why Men Love Blow Jobs So Much

What men want in bed can be better understood by women if we actually know the reasons behind what they want. This is especially helpful when it comes to certain things that many women don’t like to do, like a blow job.

What men want in bed can be better understood by women if we actually know the reasons behind what they want. This is especially helpful when it comes to certain things that many women don’t like to do, like a blow job.

You can be sure about that pretty much every man loves receiving oral sex (Fellatio).

That’s a fact! But most women don’t like it, or even hate to give those so craved blow jobs to their partner.

As a woman, I completely understand you Ladies, but there’s hope on this one; I came from hate it to love it!...

You just need to explore the reasons why men love it so much, so you can better understand your man, and then learn how to perform oral sex right while even enjoying it!

Let’s see the 6 big reasons why your man loves fellatio so much:

1. Feeling your hot and wet mouth wrapping his penis

During a blow job, your hot and wet mouth is wrapping his penis, which is full of about 4.000 pleasurable nerve endings.

It’s almost like intercourse; his penis is completely surrounded and enveloped by tight, warm wetness that complemented with movements, not even your vagina can make, it creates fantastic sensations and orgasmic experiences for him.

2. Suction

In addition to feeling his penis wrapped by your hot and wet mouth, he’s experiencing suction as well; and, let’s face it... A vagina can’t suck!

Whether the suction is light, medium or deep, it draws blood to the head of his penis where most of the pleasurable nerve endings are.

This increased blood flow heightens every single sensation he experiences.

3. Tongue movements

Now, let’s add tongue movements to his penis that is already being wrapped and sucked on! A variety of tongue movements in the right places will take him to feel a powerful orgasm!

4. Hands movements

But that’s not all! Your mouth is not the only one providing him pleasure!... Where are your 2 hands while your mouth is busy? I hope they are not just hanging there... Use everything you have to provide pleasure to your man!

One hand can go to the base of his penis while your mouth is focused on the head and the shaft, enveloping, sucking and tonguing. Your other hand can go to pleasure his scrotum. All of these will provide multiple pleasurable sensations that will send your man to paradise!

5. Visual turn on

Remember, men are visual creatures. While women need to be emotionally turned on before they become physically aroused, men can be visually turned on and easily become aroused.

Now, for him seeing you between his legs pleasuring his penis, it’s the ultimate live sex show and a complete turn on! From the way your lips and tongue move, to the way you look at him showing him that you like it, it’s visually turning him on!

And, here’s where your attitude becomes key in giving him a great blow job!

If you seem like you are not enjoying what you’re doing or even look like you’re disgusted, you’re not only killing his visual excitement, but also hurting his feelings.

Just imagine for a second, how would you feel if he’s doing a disgusting or boring face while going down on you?

6. Emotional aspect

Believe it or not, there are also emotional reasons for him to love fellatio. Having his woman completely focused on giving him pleasure in his favorite spot, is an emotional turn on for him.

Also, when you give your man oral pleasure, it gives him a sense of being loved and admired. A man feels like a woman loves him when she gives him incredible sexual pleasure. This is how important sex and oral sex are for a man.

Men are sexually driven. They get many of their physical and emotional needs met during sex.

While a woman gets her physical and emotional needs met through kissing, hugging, cuddling, bonding, talking, sharing... A man can get most of his needs through sex.

After a pleasurable sexual experience and a great orgasm, a man will feel more connected to his partner and happier in his relationship.

Remember, women usually need an emotional connection to open up for sex, and men need sex to open up to emotional connection. Oral sex could actually give them one of the greatest emotional connection with their partners.

This is why, like I said before, your attitude is everything when it comes to give him oral sex! It could be actually even more important than technique.

If you show your man that you like giving him oral pleasure, he will be in heaven; but, if you show rejection, boredom or even disgust you will surely hurt his feelings.

So, there you have it! Oral Sex is a huge part of what men want in bed, and now you know the 6 big reasons why men love blow jobs so much, from the physical to the emotional aspects.

Now, there’s one thing I can assure you: Receiving oral sex for a man is more important than you think.

Many men like fellatio even more than intercourse, leaving oral sex out of your couple sex life could create big gaps in your man that could definitely affect your sex life and relationship.

The number one complaint that men have when it comes to their sex life with their partner is not having enough sex. The second biggest complaint they have is not having enough oral sex.

When you check out the surveys, it is absolutely impressive seeing the huge percentage of men that crave receiving oral sex from their partners, but it’s really shocking seeing how much important fellatio is for them, and how much not receiving it could affect their relationships.

If you're checking my website, I’m pretty sure you’re interested in finding ways to spice up and improve your sex life; well, mastering the art of fellatio is definitly one of the biggest improvements that you can make to sex in your relationship.

From here... My recommendation?

1. Do you want a tasteful guide on oral sex? Check Blow by Blow.

2. Would you prefer a more relaxed, informal and brutally honest guide on how to give killer blowjobs? Then, Jack’s Blowjob Lessons is for you.

BUT… If you want to go beyond learning how to give a blowjob to learn how to fully satisfy your man in bed... AND you also want to finally get what YOU want and need from him emotionally and sexually You need to learn:

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