Hi Guys! It’s no big secret that women like to be touched. We simply love sensual massages! :) We like the feeling of comfort it provides.
... So, we would love for our man to not only master the art of massage, but also to offer it more often without us to have to beg for it! ;)
Therefore, if you want to please your woman, you should never underestimate the power of massages. The strokes of your hand will both relax and entice her.
By the end, she will have a clear mind and be focused completely on YOU! – As long as you create an inviting ambiance.
This is a step-by-step guide to help you understand the basics of sensual massage. (By Michael Webb, author of The Virtuoso Lover)
1. Set the mood
If it is too cold or too bright, it will not be soothing to her. Dim the lights or light scented candles. For an extra soothing sensation, put on some soft music.
I personally recommend some Al Green, but definitely choose music she likes. If you’re not sure, nature sounds or ambient noise are a good alternative. Make sure it’s nice and warm in the room, or she won’t want to get naked!
2. Lube up
Not in the way you’re thinking. Apply a creamy lotion or oil to your palms before you start rubbing her down. It will allow your hands to glide across her skin more smoothly.
Get something special that you only use for this purpose, and get it in a yummy flavor so you can lick it off of her later. The aroma of it will tingle her senses, heightening her experience as well.
3. Master your strokes
Don’t press too hard, you are her sexual partner, not her athletic trainer. You don’t need to beat out tight spots or loosen up joints; you want to relax your woman.
Slow and steady strokes are key. Avoid loosing physical contact during the massage. It agitates the senses, which is counter productive to what you’re trying to accomplish.
4. Don’t play favorites
If you rub down one arm, you must rub down the other. Giving all of your attention to one part of the body makes her feel unbalanced and uneasy.
Additionally, don’t do her right side and then her left. If you massage her right arm, do her left arm before moving on to her right leg and then her left.
This applies not only to a massage, but to any intimate situation. If you suck on her left nipple, make sure you give attention to her right one. Conversely, if you spend time on her lower half, make sure you kiss her on her upper half to help balance it out.
Ok, guys! There you have some basics! To get a deeply knowledge on how to please your Lady with you hands, go and take a look at The Virtuoso Lover.
Here, Michael Webb goes in deep on the Art of Sensual Massage, as well as, many other ways to please your woman. He created this guide to teach men how to become exepcional lovers.
You'll be able to MASTER every aspect of your sex life. Yes! I'm talking about going from average sex to Over The Top sex!... So, go ahead and take a look at it and remember:
Make sure you treat your woman with plenty of massages. Just take your time... Don't rush it!... She'll be a very very happy woman! And very happy woman means more LOVE and SEX for YOU! ;)
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