How To Give Your Woman An Oral Sex Orgasm


Most women absolutely love oral sex! Pretty much everything you do down there feels wonderful to her... But, are you actually giving her an oral sex orgasm?... (Ladies click here)


Most women absolutely love oral sex! Pretty much everything you do down there feels wonderful to her... But, are you actually giving her an oral sex orgasm?... (Ladies click here)

No matter how good your wet tongue feels, making her come with it, will definitely blow her mind!  

Therefore, knowing what parts you lick, flick, or suck, and how you do it makes a big difference when it comes to give her an orgasm!

Now, before getting down to business and learn how to go down on your woman and give her a delicious wet orgasm with your tongue, there are 4 simple rules about oral sex you need to follow to make it successful:


# 1. Lots of warm up and foreplay.

# 2. Don’t go straight for the clitoris.

# 3. Explore every inch of her vulva.

# 4. Don’t change what you’re doing when she’s about to orgasm.


Ok, with those basic rules in mind, let’s get into action:


Steps To Give Her An Oral Sex Orgasm


1. Warm up her mind:

Relax her mind. Romance her and get her in the mood for oral sex.


2. Warm up her body:

“Preheat the oven” with lots of foreplay. Start your trip up in the north with lots of kisses in her lips and neck, then go to her breast and spend a good time there, now go to her belly and down to her inner thighs.

Tease her, make her want it bad for you to go to her vulva.


3. Warm up her vulva:

* Start playing with the Pubic Mound (Mons Pubis).

If she’s shaved or waxed down there... Enjoy it! Kiss, kiss and then kiss some more!... If she’s chosen to keep some pubic hair, then play with it... Go and dive into her mound.

Nuzzle and glide your lips around as if you're tickling her. Gently blow the area and tease her.


4. Explore her vulva:

* Lick her outer lips

Wet your lips and slide them over her flat lips. Now using a wide tongue or a semi-pointed tongue lick her outer lips up and down, mostly up.

Here, you can also move your tongue rapidly from side to side while licking up and down.


* Lick, nibble and suck her inner lips

Use your flat or semi-pointed tongue (semi-pointed does work best) and work your way slowly in between her inner and outer lips from top to bottom and lick those lips! French kiss her lips! Suck them like a nipple!...

You can even nibble her labia gently with your lips to give her extra pleasure. Switch between licks, nibbles and sucks. Play around with them!


* Lick her vaginal opening

By now she should be nice and wet. Time for you to go to her vagina. Here, the most sensitive part is near the opening; so, start licking around the vaginal opening.

Lick up and down, side to side, go around and around and then insert your tongue, gently, as much as you would do with a finger if you were pleasuring her with your hands.

Extend your tongue as deep as you can, but don’t worry to go very deep because even just licking barely in and out of the vaginal opening will give her a great feeling.

Here, it’s a good time to use some tongue flicking, this will give her a good preview of what’s coming up for her clit.

Switch from licking, flicking and tongue thrusting in and out. Use pointed and flat tongue to add variety... And enjoy her juices! She’s letting you know she likes what you’re doing!...

Play around all you want but just remember: Never blow air into her vagina! This can be really dangerous.


5. Finally... It’s Clit time!

Now, it’s time for you to focus only on her clitoris.

When you’re exploring her vulva you can come and go and tease her clitoris a little bit to get it warmed up, but when she’s getting ready to climax, you focus all your attention on her clit, and you don’t go anywhere else until she orgasm.  

You tease your woman on the build up stage where you’re playing around with her vulva, but you never tease a woman when she’s about to orgasm. At this stage,  you stay on her clitoris, and you stick with whatever you’re doing that is working.


The good news here is that the clitoris is so sensitive that pretty much anything your wet tongue does here feels wonderful for her.

Start by licking the surrounding areas, and then go through the clitoral hood. Do some sweeping movements from side to side using slow strokes and then fast strokes. Then, create circles with your pointed tongue around her clitoris. From circles, you can change to different shapes like letters or numbers. Get creative!

.... When you’re ready to lick the clitoral head itself, start with a flat, soft tongue to make it get used to the direct stimulation; remember the clit head is very sensitive.

Now, gently kiss and suck her clitoris, and while it’s inside your mouth use flicking tongue movements to drive her crazy. By now you can use a stiff and pointed tongue for more direct stimulation and also start increasing speed and intensity.

As soon as you find the movement that is taking her off, stick with it!... don’t change it!... It is time for your tongue to lick the clitoris faster and faster until you have given her a mind blowing clitoral orgasm! :)


Remember that moves and techniques must be repeated and varied – keep your woman guessing!

Don’t forget, however, that you must also develop a rhythm and keep it, especially close to orgasm. Yes, variety is important, but remember: 


When she’s about to come, don’t ever change what you're doing!


Always stick with whatever movement you’re doing that is working. Let her fully enjoy her wonderful orgasm!

There you have it, this is the basics on how to give your woman an oral sex orgasm, but if you want to really MASTER how to go down on her, I recommend you take a look at one of the best oral sex guides that I've found so far: Lick by Lick: How To Go Down On A Woman And Have Her Begging For More.

This is a very complete guide that will teach you from how to turn her on to how to give her the best oral orgasms of her life.

The author, Michael Webb, covers pretty much everything... Female anatomy: Her hot spots and how to stimulate them, all about the clit, tips and techniques, oral sex positions, advanced techniques, fingering... even sex toys!

Definitely a source of oral sex information worth to have to be able to master how to go down on her. 


Angie :)

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