10 Ideas For Keeping The Romance Alive In Your Relationship

Hi Ladies! Is the romance gone? Keeping the romance alive in your relationship may seem challenging, but it’s actually easier than you think!

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If you feel like your relationship have lost the romance that it once had and now the magic is gone...

You’re definitely not alone. The majority of long term relationships suffer of this at one point or the other.

Living with the same partner for a long time can become too stable and too comfortable, and people may think that's good enough.

Unfortunately, routine sets in and people stop making the effort to create romance.  A boring routine can kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.

I brought you here, directly from Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb, Author of 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets, 10 simple, fun and creative ideas for keeping the romance alive in your relationship:

1. Have a romantic walk along the beach

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

2. Surprise him!... Bring back childhood memories

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything he always wanted when he was a little boy. For example if he always wanted a firefighter truck, buy one for his birthday.

He will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what he always wanted.

3. Show you’re grateful for your partner

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying:

"Thank you for coming into my life."

Want to spice it up?...

Put the rose on your naked body with the note written with edible painting and wait for him in bed! ;)

4. Give him an indirect suggestion... Get a massage with a twist

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:

I know a great masseur.

For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. Play together... Become kids again!

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

6. Dream together... Stare at the clouds

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. Get creative... Send him a unique gift!

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures.

Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as:

 “For the immediate and urgent attention of:  Mike Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.”

Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

8. Organize a picnic on a warm summer’s night

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

... And make love! ... Of course ;)

9. Enjoy the summer... Have fun with water!

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

10. Spice up your lovemaking!!!

Probably the most profound way for keeping the romance alive in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking!

Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.

Many people underestimate the effect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other.


Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

By: Michael Webb

I hope you liked it! :)

Remember ladies, is not that guys don’t like romance, they do! It's just that usually, they are not as creative as we can be, so they tend to leave that up to us.

I know, I hear you! We are the ones who are expecting all these kind of romantic things from them, but let’s face it, if your man is not the kind of creative one, it’s left up to you to reignite that magic!

So, go ahead and try these ideas for keeping the romance alive! And check Michael Webb's Book 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets for hundreds of great ideas on how to bring back the romance and Spice Sex Up! :)

Spice Sex Up! :)

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