How To Give A Hand Job:
13 Hand Job Techniques To Give Him An Amazing Orgasm



Hi Ladies! How to give a hand job is a skill that should be part of every woman sex tool box!... Master these 13 hand job techniques, and give your man an amazing orgasm!... Let’s learn how to do it better than himself! ;)


Hi Ladies! How to give a hand job is a skill that should be part of every women sex tool box!... Master these 13 hand job techniques, and give your man an amazing orgasm!... Let’s learn how to do it better than himself! ;)

Now, your hands are the bigger helpers while giving him a blow job, but why not to use them to make a hand job the main event?


Men absolutely love hand jobs!


They have been masturbating since they discovered what their hands can do to their penis; however, ask any man and they would tell you they prefer their woman's hands to their own to do the job.

They would also say how much they love the feeling of a powerful orgasm brought by a great hand job.

Some men even prefer an earth shaking hand job over a blow job! So, the best thing you can do to make sure you please your man is master both arts!

I brought you here some of the great hand job techniques presented by Michael Webb in his book "Stroke by Stroke". Let's take a look at them to learn how to give a hand job, and give your man amazing orgasms!

You'll be able to even beat his own techniques! ;)


Getting Ready:

1. First of all, make sure that your hands are soft, and your nails are clipped. Nothing can be more uncomfortable for a man than having his penis snagged by a hangnail in the middle of a hand job.


2. Then grab some water-based lubricant. Your own spit can also work, just make sure that you keep him really wet all the time. A dry hand job is simply uncomfortable and unpleasant.

Creams won't do the job here because they are too thick, and oils and oil-based lubricants will not be good choices if you're having intercourse with a condom later because oil will break the latex. If you're not using a condom later, you can use an oil-based lube or grape seed oil; it slides well, and it's all natural.


3. Get your partner in a comfortable position for him to relax and enjoy the genital massage. Put yourself in a comfortable position too, where your hands and arms will not get easily tired.

Here, you have some ideas:

- Both standing facing each other

- Standing with your partner facing opposite you

- Kneeling in front of your partner while he's sitting on a chair or the bed

- Sitting side by side

- Sitting between your partner's legs while he's lying down

- Kneeling while your partner is standing

Get creative, and experiment different positions to find which ones you both like the most while adding variety to the hand job!


4. Warm him up!

Yes, just as with a blow job, you still need to do a little bit of warm up. Men don't need as much warm up as women, but they still need some.

Visual stimulation always works great! Wear something sexy, if you want, do some striptease or a lap dance.

Also, dirty talk! Telling him what you're about to do, will put his penis rock hard!

A short but nice massage on his body while getting your way down there will also work wonders.

Trying different things on the warm up will definitely add variety to the hand job... Spicing things up!


Hand Job Techniques:

To begin the genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes... like teasing him. Later, you will stick with the two or three strokes that he enjoys the most, and develop a good rhythm that your partner can get into.

This is the key to bring him to orgasm through a hand job. Remember not to change the stroke when your man is close to orgasm, or you could bring him back down. Stick with the winner movement until he ejaculates.


1. Pour lube on your hands and over his penis, and begin by just using the tips of your fingers. Let them float all around his penis pressing lightly, and then moving into a firmer press.


2. Roll the shaft of his penis in between your palms. You can do this lightly or harder, if he likes more stimulation.


3. Take one hand, wrap it around the base of his penis, and gently pulls towards the head. As you’re finishing the stroke with that hand, begin a new stroke with the other hand.


4. Hold the base of the penis firmly with one hand while rubbing your palm on the head of the penis. This traps blood at the head of the penis, making it more sensitive to whatever stroke you’re using on the head.


5. Give a long stroke from the base of the penis all the way to the tip of the head in a twisting motion. You can twist up the entire penis or twist only the head.


6. Put both hands on his penis, one at the base and the other at the head. Use the above technique, but twist with both hands at the same time. You can also twist in different directions to spice up the move.


7. Try using different strokes with his penis pointed in different directions. This causes blood to flow in different areas, making him more sensitive to your movements.


8. Make your thumb and forefinger form a ring around the base of his penis. Move this ring up and down the penis in long strokes. You can do this gently or firmer depending on the stage of the handjob.


9. Hold his penis firmly in both hands, and use your thumbs only to massage your partner’s shaft and head. You can do this in strokes or circles, depending on what he likes best.


10. Use any stroke that involves just one hand in combination with strokes that involve pulling, tugging, holding, cupping and lightly massaging his scrotum.


11. Start at the base and pull gently upward while twisting (but not too hard) as if you were trying to start a fire with a stick of wood.


12. Utilize the above technique (one-handed stroke combined with the other hand massaging another area) on the perineum. This will create delightful sensations between his “G-spot” and his penis. This move will bring him to orgasm quickly, and it is a great move to use while he finishes off.


13. Put both of your hands out as if you are going to “clap” and place one on each side of his penis – this Side / Side flat palmed action will be a different sensation for him.


Experiment and try as many moves as you want. Once he's getting close to orgasm, stick with the move that is working the most and increase the speed and intensity.

Variety time is over! Don't change the movement until he ejaculates. This is the crucial moment when you really need to be able to keep up with him.

Your hand may start getting tired, but try the best you can to hold strong and finish him off; he would really appreciate your extra effort.

When he's ready to ejaculate, keep one hand on the head of his penis while he has an orgasm (this is very pleasurable) and let his semen bubble over your fingers like a volcano, or you can keep your hands on the shaft of his penis and watch how high his eruptions will go!


There you have it Ladies!... This is an overview of the basics on how to give a hand job.


From here... My recommendation?

1. Are you simply curious about hand jobs? Look around my site you'll find useful information that will give you an overall idea about it.

2.  Do you want to learn how to give him amazing hand jobs and want to know every detail, advice and techniques on it? Go ahead and read Stroke by Stroke: How To Give Amazing Hand jobs. This guide is entirely focused on how to pleasure your man with your hands and will teach you everything you need to know to master it. 

3. BUT… If in addition to learning how to really please your man, you also want to finally get what YOU want and need from him emotionally and sexually… You need to learn... 





Angie :)

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