How To Give A Blow Job To Make Him Happy!


When it comes to giving your man sexual pleasure, learning how to give a blow job is probably the ultimate skill that you can attain and the best gift you can give to your man. 


When it comes to giving your man sexual pleasure, learning how to give a blow job is probably the ultimate skill that you can attain and the best gift you can give to your man.

Nothing turns on more a man than seeing his woman down on her knees worshiping his penis.

There are actually many men who prefer oral sex over intercourse!

This is how much they love it, crave it, need it, and how much you need to learn how to give your man great blow job orgasms to keep your honey happy :)


Then, let’s learn how to give a blow job!


1. COMMUNICATION: Set down the rules

Communication is key when it comes to fellatio to avoid the uncomfortable moments that happens when both of you are not on the same page. By him knowing how far you’re willing to go, the fear of suddenly him pushing your head against him or coming in your mouth, if don’t want to, can be avoided.

Things like...  

Hands on your head or not? Where does the semen go? In your mouth? In your body? Is it ok for you to swallow? How about deep throat?  

... Must be cleared between a couple before a fellatio session.

Figure out what he likes and what he doesn’t. Most men don’t like teeth. Some men will like more suction, some more licking, some like it easier, some rougher. And make sure he knows what you like and what you don’t.

Set down “the rules” in advance and follow them, so the natural flow of the blow job doesn’t get interrupted or ruined because of misunderstandings.


2. GET INTO IT: Your attitude is key here!

There’s nothing worse for a man than receiving a blow job from a woman that hates doing it.

If your face and your attitude are saying, “I hate doing this” “this is disgusting” or “how boring this is” you are definitely killing the moment and hurting you man’s feelings.

Your man will not be able to enjoy it, and it will be very hard for him to orgasm.

Just imagine...

How bad would you feel if he’s making a disgust or boredom face while he’s going down on you???

Also...

Don’t ever make a blow job a boring chore!

Nothing in the sex life of a couple should be a chore. Everything should be pleasurable.

Remember that you’re building up sexual excitement during a blow job for him to reach orgasm; if you make it boring, how will he be able to come?


Attitude And Enthusiasm Are Everything In A Blow Job!


Actually, acttitude an entushiasm are more important that any technique. You need to get into it! Be in the moment! Show him that you like what you’re doing, that you’re enjoying it. Your enjoyment is part of his pleasure.

Enjoy the feeling to be able to give him such a huge amount of pleasure!

Being able to take him over with your lips, hands, mouth and tongue can be extremely erotic. You can literally drive a man crazy with a well done blow job, and have him on your knees doing everything you want afterwards.


3. WARM HIM UP: Don’t go straight for it - Build anticipation

While you don’t need to use as much as foreplay with your man to get him ready for a blow job, some warm up and visual stimulation will get him very excited and ready for you to give him head.

Men are visual creatures, and seeing you in some sexy lingerie or even doing some striptease will put, him and his penis, sooo ready for oral sex that it may even minimize the time you need to spend on his penis for him to get an orgasm.

Whether or not you choose to add visual stimulation, make sure you’re not going straight for his penis unless he wants to.

Build anticipation first... Tease him!

Start heating things up! Stroke his body parts, and tease him with kisses, licks and bites. Begin with his neck, chest, abs and work your ways down south.

Once you get there, get into a comfortable position for you to give him oral pleasure. You can either have him laying down in bed, have him stand up or make him sit on the couch.

Although it only takes a few minutes of direct stimulation for a man to reach orgasm, specially when you’re using your mouth, make sure you are in a position where you don’t hurt your neck or get tired before him reaching the orgasm.

Now, caress him gently but firmly before putting your mouth on his penis. Begin by caressing his thighs and inner thighs. All of these areas have sensitive nerve endings that lead right to the groin area.

When you make your way to his groin, tug his pubic hair (if he has some) lightly. You can also caress his scrotum and the base of his penis – the idea is to build tension and give him just enough stimulation to keep him going but not so much that you’re in full-blown pleasure mode.


The object is to keep him wanting for more!


Once you have built enough anticipation with your hands and other gestures, you can begin building anticipation using your mouth.

You can do several things here and get creative with them, as long as, you wait a little bit before taking your partner’s penis into your mouth fully and beginning fellatio.

You can use short licks here and there, and kisses are great too. Just be careful not to tease him too much or he may lose his erection.


4. USE YOUR TONGUE TO GET THINGS GOING

Whether he’s already hard or not, start using your tongue in one long, slow licking motion from the base of his penis all the way up. Lick up and down.

Now, with your flat tongue lick the head of his penis and tease the underside of the shaft with little flicks of your tongue.

Do this many times until you see he’s all worked up for you to take his penis into your mouth. Spend a good time pleasuring his head where the majority of the nerve endings are.


5. GET DOWN TO BUSSINES

As you take his penis into your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips to avoid hurting him, and make sure you use your tongue, mouth and fingers to stimulate the rest of his shaft, his testicles and his perineum.  

Combine a sucking movement of your mouth with an up and down motion of your hands on the rest of the shaft that is not in your mouth.

While his penis is in your mouth, you can have one hand on his shaft and the other stimulating his testicles and perineum; creating a combo of pleasurable sensations for him.

Make a lot of eye contact as well as some “yummy” noises showing him that you like what you're doing.

Use a combination of licking, sucking, flicking and hand motions to send him to a climax.

Give him a variety of movements, pressure and speed. Pay attention to his reactions to know what he likes the most; there’s no really a step-by-step guide of what you do down there.

Every man is different, and this is almost a discovery journey for you. With time, you’ll know what he likes and what he doesn’t.


6. THE BIG FINALE!!!

The variety and the teasing time it’s over when you see he’s getting close to orgasm.

Here, you stick with the movement that you're doing that’s taking him off and increase the speed and intensity.

What you do when he’s about come depends on your choice of where the semen goes:


If you’re going to swallow, go up and down on his penis as he’s coming, and swirl your tongue around the head.

* If you’re going to spit out his semen you can use the same move as he’s coming and then spit his semen on a towel. Just do it discreetly and don’t kill the mood by spitting it out openly if you don’t like the taste of his semen once he ejaculates.

If you don’t want his semen to go into your mouth, make sure you have a lot of saliva in your mouth before he starts to come to finish him off with your hand.  

Flavored lube is great here because it reacts with saliva and helps you to jerk him off. Focus on stimulating with your hand the part where the head meets the shaft, and let his semen goes to the spot of your body you both prefer.

* If you choose to let him finish into your vagina. Quickly put his penis inside of you when he’s about to come, and the vagina will give him the last strokes he needs to orgasm.

Where the semen goes it doesn’t really matters as long as you guys have agreed about it before, so there are not unexpected surprises at the time of his orgasm.


There you go, this is how to give a Blow Job Orgasm to your honey and make very him happy!


Remember, the most important things here are: Good communication, a great attitude, and of course some good techniques!

And talking about good techniques... The best source that I've found to recommend you to master the art of oral sex is Blow by Blow: Expert Tips On How To Give Mind-Blowing Blow Jobs, by Oprah love and sex expert Michael Webb.

This is a very complete guide for women to learn everything we must know when it comes to give oral sex to our man. Here, Michael teaches us from penis anatomy to how to handle the semen! in a very tasteful and professional way.

You may be wondering... Penis anatomy???... Is that really necessary?... Well... YES, it is!... It's by really getting to know his penis that you'll know exactly how to work it! ;)... And guess what? Lucky for us... a penis is actually pretty simple... jejeje ;)... Once you know the area and the tricks, you're own your way to blooow him away!  

Well Ladies! As you know men absolutely loooove getting blow jobs and mastering the art of pleasing our man with our mouth will keep him crazy in love with us!... Oh! yeah!... That's how much they love it!...

... That's why I truly recommend you to take your time to learn more about oral sex and Blow by Blow will definitely teach you great oral sex tips and specific techniques on how to give a blow jobto give your man Mind-Blowing Oral Orgasms! ;)


Angie :)

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