Back Door Betty:
The Short Guide To Anal Sex

Hi Guys! Here is: “Back Door Betty: The Short Guide To Anal Sex!

Hi Guys! Here is: “Back Door Betty: The Short Guide To Anal Sex!

I brought you this article directly from Michael Webb, author of - The Virtuoso Lover - because throughout my research...

I’ve found how big of a fantasy is anal sex for men, and how women are terrified about it! Mostly, because guys don’t know how to do it properly.

If done right, it is not supposed to hurt, if it hurts, then you’re doing something wrong.

Now, if you don’t learn how to do it properly, and after all the begging for her to let you try, the first time you hurt her... Then, you can be sure that it will be your first and your last attempt!

So, take a look at this short guide to anal sex to have a better idea of what to do! ;)


Ah, anal sex. Depending on the person, it is the greatest fantasy or the worst turn-off.  

Some women run in fear at the thought, while some practically beg for it. There are men who will do anything to get in the backdoor, and others who couldn’t imagine putting it in the poop shoot (FYI, not even all gay men like anal).  

If you’re one that wants to see what all the fuss is about, here is a step-by-step guide to making it a pleasurable, or at least tolerable, experience for both. 

Warning: This is a high-risk activity.

1. Lube it up… A lot!  

Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubrication.

Use a water based lubricant (or a silicone based lubricant). You can get something flavored if you want to put it on her before you stick your tongue in there.  

However, never, EVER attempt anal sex without lubrication. It will cause tearing in her anus, not to mention a lot of pain.

2. Relax! 

Have her take some deep breaths. Perhaps you can give her a massage first to loosen her up. If she is a little ball of tension, it causes the sphincter to tighten. If that’s tight, you’ll never get in.

3. Slip a finger in  

Start small, especially if this is her first time. Meaning, use your pinky. Once you’re all lubed up, glide it in and out slowly and gently to get her used to insertion.  

Next try your ring finger. Really work it out. Insert it, swivel around, tickle. The more time you can spend the better. If she can’t handle your finger, she sure as hell won’t be able to handle your penis. That is, and I hope for your sake, if your penis is larger than your digits.

4. Now you’re ready

Don’t go jabbing your member straight into the no-no hole. You will be immediately kicked out of bed, maybe forever. Particularly amongst anal virgins, this needs to be gradual.  

Tease the anus a bit, and then slide in just the head. Pull out, and then slide it in a little deeper. Keep doing it until you can comfortable get it all the way in. Don’t add speed or pressure until she is ready for it. Well, now you can take it from here.

There you have it guys! This is a very useful short guide to anal sex for you to have an idea on what to do. However, keep reading because there's much more anal sex info that you must know!

Michael Webb

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "The Virtuoso Lover". Here, he teaches men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make 'out-of-this-world' love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Here you'll learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally. 


There you have Guys! But remember, this is just a short guide to anal sex, you need way more information than that. In this article, Michael Webb did a fantastic job on giving you the main idea, but if you want to make sure you know everything you need to give your Lady anal pleasure, go ahead and take a look at Michael's book: The Virtuoso Lover.

Here, you'll not only find all the details, tips and techniques to master anal sex but also to master every other way to give your woman sexual pleasure... Including oral sex, different kind of orgasms, intercourse, sex positions, fingering, seduction, romance, foreplay... It is definitely a very complete sex guide for men.

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