How To Go Down on Her And Have Her Begging You For More

Ready to learn how to go down on her the way she really likes it? Knowing where and how to lick, flick, or suck makes a big difference. Give her an oral orgasm, and she’ll be begging you for more!

Ready to learn how to go down on her the way she really likes it? Knowing where and how to lick, flick, or suck makes a big difference. Give her an oral orgasm, and she’ll be begging you for more!

Oral sex is absolutely enjoyable for most women, but unfortunately cunnilingus it’s an art that many men still don’t master.

The good news here is that pretty much everything you do down there feels wonderful to her. 

From the feeling of your wet tongue to your most sophisticated tongue technique.

But still, knowing what parts you lick, flick or suck and how you do it makes the difference.

Now, before getting down to business and learn how to really go down on your woman to have her begging you for more...

There are 4 simple rules about oral sex you need to follow to make it successful:

Oral Sex Rules:

# 1. Lots of warm up and foreplay.

# 2. Don’t go straight for the clitoris.

# 3. Explore every inch of her vulva.

# 4. Don’t change what you’re doing when she’s about to orgasm.

Ok, with those basic rules in mind, let’s get into the action:

How To Go Down On Her

1. Warm up her mind:

Relax her mind. Romance her and get her in the mood for oral sex.

2. Warm up her body:

“Preheat the oven” with lots of foreplay. Start your trip up in the north with lots of kisses in her lips and neck, then go to her breast and spend a good time there, now go to her belly and down to her inner thighs.

Tease her, make her want it bad for you to go to her vulva.

3. Warm up her vulva:

* Start playing with the Pubic Mound (Mons Pubis).

If she’s shaved or waxed down there... Enjoy it! Kiss, kiss and then kiss some more!... If she’s chosen to keep some pubic hair, then play with it... Go and dive into her mound.

Nuzzle and glide your lips around as if you're tickling her. Gently blow the area and tease her.

4. Explore her vulva:

* Lick her outer lips

Wet your lips and slide them over her flat lips. Now using a wide tongue or a semi-pointed tongue lick her outer lips up and down, mostly up.

Here, you can also move your tongue rapidly from side to side while licking up and down.

* Lick, nibble and suck her inner lips

Use your flat or semi-pointed tongue (semi-pointed does work best) and work your way slowly in between her inner and outer lips from top to bottom and lick those lips! French kiss her lips! Suck them like a nipple!...

You can even nibble her labia gently with your lips to give her extra pleasure. Switch between licks, nibbles and sucks. Play around with them!

* Lick her vaginal opening

By now she should be nice and wet. Time for you to go to her vagina. Here, the most sensitive part is near the opening; so, start licking around the vaginal opening.

Lick up and down, side to side, go around and around and then insert your tongue, gently, as much as you would do with a finger if you were pleasuring her with your hands.

Extend your tongue as deep as you can, but don’t worry to go very deep because even just licking barely in and out of the vaginal opening will give her a great feeling.

Here, it’s a good time to use some tongue flicking, this will give her a good preview of what’s coming up for her clit.

Switch from licking, flicking and tongue thrusting in and out. Use pointed and flat tongue to add variety... And enjoy her juices! She’s letting you know she likes what you’re doing!...

Play around all you want but just remember: Never blow air into her vagina! This can be really dangerous.

5. Hit the G-Spot

While you are exploring every inch of her vulva you can choose to use your middle finger to reach for her G-Spot.

You’re looking for a bean-shaped, rough-feeling tissue located in the front wall of her vagina, pointing towards her belly, about 2 inches inside her vagina canal.

Stimulate it with a “come here” movement while you’re still licking her vulva. Once you hit her G-Spot, pointing towards her belly, you can go for the clitoris next. Fingering stimulation feels amazing while receiving oral.

6. Finally... It’s Clit time!

Now, it’s time for you to focus only on her clitoris.

When you’re exploring her vulva you can come and go and tease her clitoris a little bit to get it warmed up, but when she’s getting ready to climax, you focus all your attention on her clit, and you don’t go anywhere else until she orgasm.  

You tease your woman on the build up stage where you’re playing around with her vulva, but you never tease a woman when she’s about to orgasm. At this stage, you stay on her clitoris, and you stick with whatever you’re doing that is working.

The good news here is that the clitoris is so sensitive that pretty much anything your wet tongue does here feels wonderful for her.

Start by licking the surrounding areas, and then go through the clitoral hood. Do some sweeping movements from side to side using slow strokes and then fast strokes. Then, create circles with your pointed tongue around her clitoris. From circles, you can change to different shapes like letters or numbers. Get creative!

.... When you’re ready to lick the clitoral head itself, start with a flat, soft tongue to make it get used to the direct stimulation; remember the clit head is very sensitive.

Now, gently kiss and suck her clitoris, and while it’s inside your mouth use flicking tongue movements to drive her crazy. By now you can use a stiff and pointed tongue for more direct stimulation and also start increasing speed and intensity.

As soon as you find the movement that is taking her off, stick with it!... Don’t change it!... It is time for your tongue to lick the clitoris faster and faster until you have given her a Mind Blowing Clitoral Orgasm!! :)

There you go, this is how to go down on her to have her begging you for more!

Keep in mind that moves and techniques must be repeated and varied – keep your woman guessing!

Don’t forget, however, that you must also develop a rhythm and keep it, especially close to orgasm. Yes, variety is important, but remember: 

When she’s about to come...

Don’t ever change what you're doing!

Always stick with whatever movement you’re doing that is working, and let her fully enjoy her wonderful orgasm! ;)

If you feel ready to take your sex life to the next level and truly MASTER how to give her EVERY type of female orgasm, then check out this video:

If you feel ready to take your sex life to the next level and truly MASTER how to give her EVERY type of female orgasm, then check out this video:

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