Okay Guys! Ready for some dirty talk tips? Great! ... So, your woman finally agreed to give dirty talk a try, ah?... Awesome! (Ladies click here)
Dirty talk is a great way to spice up your sex life! But, it can also cause embarrassment and uncomfortable situations if it’s not done right.
So, now that you have “green light” you need to learn how to do it correctly to not end up making her uncomfortable or even offending her.
Dirty Talk not always comes naturally, but it is a skill that everyone can learn. Many women may feel awkward about it and they may agree to do it to please you; so, you need to have patience, and be very very “gentle” and careful.
Always start with the flirty sexy things and then gradually add a little bit more of the dirty stuff. She will get more comfortable with the idea and may even like it!
There are 5 main potential mistakes men tend to make when experimenting with dirty talk.
I brought you this article from the creator of Dirty Talk Secrets, Michael Webb, Oprah love expert; for you to check and avoid these mistakes at all costs to save yourself the embarrassment of a dirty talk attempt gone horribly wrong…
Enjoy it ;)
Mistake 1: Emulating the Dirty Talk in Porn Films
A good deal of women are turned off by porn, so try not to make her emulate what you’ve seen during some of those movies. Lots of them have cheesy lines and actors that aren’t up for academy awards for a very good reason.
Mistake 2: Making the Dirty Talk Unbelievable
Be aware that talking dirty can come across as very insincere. Telling your woman, that you love her massive tits when she is more “grape” than “grapefruit” in size could backfire.
Sure, indulge a little but don’t go completely overboard with your exaggeration.
In fact, when your lover is overly conscious of her size, dirty talk can do amazing things to boost her confidence.
Whisper to your woman that you love being able to put her whole breast in your mouth. Dirty talk gives you the avenue to banish her insecurities and make her eager for more hot sex with you.
Mistake 3: Putting False Expectations in Her Head
When you’re using dirty talk, don’t tell her about things you honestly have NO intentions of doing (ie. Threesomes, group sex, farm animals, sex in public, midgets, bondage, etc.)
You may find that it triggers some new fantasies or embeds some new images in her mind that she could continue to ask you to talk about and then want to act them out in real life.
Mistake 4: Using Dirty Talk as the Sizzle Rather Than The Spice
Talking dirty can also become redundant (just like missionary sex day after day after day). Make sure that you don’t use the same phrases, over and over, or trust me, it will have the exact opposite effect and your partner might end up thinking, “Ok… I’ve heard that so many times… please shut up already.” ?
Mistake 5: Giving Up When It’s Not Turning Her On
Sometimes talking dirty can be more comical than erotic, depending on what is said and how it is said. It’s okay to laugh! But don’t give up. There’s actually a lot to learn! It’s not just the words you say!
I highly recommend you guys to check out Michael Webb's "Dirty Talk Secrets" for lots of dirty talk tips and great examples on how to talk dirty to her... The Right Way! This a very complete guide that will teach you how to turn her on... NOT off! ;)
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